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Arny only had one split-second chance.

The moment probably wasn’t as dramatic as he was making it out to be in his mind, but the muscular brown-eyed nineteen year-old loved to play, trick and tease his imagination to such a fevered edge, especially where a new boyfriend, like Carl here, was concerned. He had thought up his plan as he lie next to his sleeping boyfriend, and now with Carl sporting the delicious erection he was-dreaming whatever naughty dream he was-Anry was ready.

He had grabbed the jelly-like Elastomer Metro Cock Ring out of his bottom dresser drawer, lubed its circular spongy inside hole and warmed it a bit between his fingers. His goal in the few ticking minutes he had before Carl’s alarm clock sounded was to get his boyfriend’s ready cock out of his boxer’s already spilt fly, ease the cock ring down Carl’s thick dick, all before Carl woke fully to what was going on. Then Arny would simply dip his head down and suck Carl off, in effect waking the lanky blonde with a mind-blowing orgasm. Carl would blow his load down Anry’s throat (as usual) but with a thick, taut and fuller then usual yield, aided by the ring around the base of his dick and Arny could then go on with his morning knowing that once again he had given Carl another unprecedented sexual surprise.

It wasn’t that Carl even asked for these moments-had he even known Arny had bought that Elastomer two weeks ago for just such a surprise like this-he was quite content with their sex life, Arny knew. No, it was a sense of honor and pride Arny took in treating all his lovers as creatively as possible. So, even if they broke up-and given their youth they very well might-then Arny’s exes would at least remember the sex as creative. This concept, the idea that an ex of his might be thinking about him fondly and possibly feel a rise in his jeans was an idea that Arny masturbated over more than any other.

Carl stirred and Arny nearly jumped off the bed!

Fingering the squishy cock ring, Arny rolled to his lover and with deft tickling, poked his fingers into the fly of Carl’s boxers. Holding his breath, Arny reached in and without another turn or flutter from Carl, Arny had his boyfriend’s magnificently thick cock out. Arny knew he had mere seconds here, the sensations that Carl was no doubt feeling would wake him soon enough…just the coolness on his cock for sure. Arny turned slightly, eased up on one elbow and brought the Elastomer to the red head of his boyfriend’s penis.

For sure Carl would wake the minute he felt the cool of the lube and the tightness of the ring, and though Arny would not normally fit a cock ring on this way, it was suddenly the thrill of pulling it down his boyfriend’s erection like this that was making he himself so achingly hard.

“What a…” Carl said as Arny shoved his fist down Carl cock, pulled the Elastomer all the way down with one last push.

“Arny…” Carl asked, trying to sit up, but Arny’s head was in his lap and his mouth around Carl’s cock before Carl could protest.

All these heady sensations meeting in his mind; Arny’s mouth on his cock to wake him up, the obvious cock ring round the base of his dick, Carl lie back, opened his eyes wide and looked down at the curly-haired head in his lap.

He had been wondering when Arny was going to use that new cock ring

I was just thinking about one of the best times my husband and I invited the guys over. He and I have been “married” for 5 years now. We love to play around, so while straight guys go out for beers and poker or whatever it is they do, we invite our gay guy friends over for some good, hot bedroom fun.

Every time is a little different. We always eventually get down into some deep fucking and oral pleasures, but the vibe changes from time to time. It was just before Christmas this one time, so I think we were in the spirit and got a little more touchy-feely than usual. I had my Eros Power Cream on the nightstand, and one of the boys dipped his hand in the lubricant. Rather than get down to business on a cock or lube up the gay sex toys, he just started to spread it around my back. I am very smooth, so it felt great. Before we knew it, there were five gay guys smearing lubricant all over each other—rolling around, massaging each other, and cuddling. Besides with my partner, I wasn’t used too much beyond just pure gay sex, so this was kind of weird and almost… romantic.
We laid around in each other’s arms most of the night, and eventually the lubricant got us all hot enough that we all jacked ourselves and each other off to a fabulous finish. Maybe one day we’ll get slippery and close like that again.

I am guessing that a lot of you guys are lucky enough to be out in New York or California, but I’m here in Montana. When I think of the big cities of the world, I imagine men holding hands everywhere and a gay sex toy store on every corner. Well, I know it’s not like that, but I know for a fact most people have more access to that kind of culture than I do.

I have gone to a couple private parties where guys had some gay toys for sale, and that was ok, but at least where I am, there’s no place to go out and buy anything that I know of. Once I discovered online shopping, I was set. I never had any ideas that there was so much diversity and possibility for a simple cock ring! I love cock rings and especially lubricants made for J/O, so I am stocked up and happy for now. I still wished I lived somewhere where I could be a little more open, but at least I have the best accessories money can buy.

How many times can this happen, I meet a guy, he digs me, I dig him, we have some drinks, a date maybe two (if he’s a little less forward than I) and then we mess around a bit before I bring him back to my place and then well then the newbie can’t hang with a few gay sex toys. It’s not so much that these boys aren’t curious or willing, they for the most part are, but it seems too often that these boys are intimidated by the toys, like they’d never lubed up an anal plug or wrapped their hard candy in a cock ring before. The worst ones though are the ones who are openly opposed to the use of toys? I mean come on ladies!!!! We already exist on the edge of public acceptance,! We lead the charge in expanding the boundaries of social acceptance in the public world; shouldn’t we be the forerunners when it comes to the bedroom too? I mean for Jesus sake, it can NOT be argued that we have the market cornered on giving head, shouldn’t we build on that and corner the toy and apparel mastery as well? (PS- I am not blaspheming; I am referring above to my little latino friend Jesus who occasionally sneaks by my place for a little leather daddy fun)

I like to be watched. I think it was that way ever since I had literal pissing contests with the boys in my hometown. Even then, I didn’t mind taking a look at what they had, but I seemed to really like the fact that they could see me.

I get to gay parties in the city once in a while, but the main outlet for my exhibitionist tendencies is online. I love to show off my cock on camera. Making videos of my hard dick accentuated by my collection of cock rings is one of my favorite sexy pastimes.

I have cock rings of every style. My videos always feature me at full attention, kept up by one of those hot rings squeezing me at the base. Sometimes I put the cock ring on, and sometimes it’s already there. Sometimes I touch myself with my hand; sometimes I do a hands-free video with the electric stimulator. Sometimes I don’t even cum; I just model my ‘wardrobe” for the camera.
It’s amazing how many hits my videos get on some of these sites. It’s really exciting to me to know that gay men around the world are looking at me show off. The Internet is a dream come true for guys like me.

I am in my seventies, and I would like to tell you younger guys out there that gay men don’t have to stop having good sex in their older years. Even if things don’t always work the way they used to, there is a lot you can do to keep it up, so to speak. Sex toys can help.

Most of the time, we both can get erections. They aren’t the strong, long-lasting kind like I had in my twenties, but they feel good and can usually lead to satisfaction. There have been times when we wanted a little more, so we have tried Viagra and some of those herbal things for stamina. We both are finding that the drug route isn’t really for us.

We just bought a strap on cock for men, which has been fun. You don’t have to be hard to wear it. It is a great sex toy for gay men like us because my partner likes to be penetrated and I can’t always do that for him if I am not more than half-mast. This way we can take it easy and have a good time for as long as we like. We have been partners for 24 years, so it is nice to have someone kind and understanding to explore these things together.

I had the same worries when I was younger! I agree with the above poster, your sexuality is really your own to discover. No one can tell you “what” you are just by knowing what your experiences have been. You sound like you are still in the stage where you are experimenting and learning what feels good. Trust me, you’ll try all kinds of things in your life and trying something new doesn’t mean you are that sexuality for the rest of your life. If more people were honest about their sexuality you’d realize that most people try a little bit of everything while they sort out the whole sex thing.

I had a girlfriend once and never even considered that I might be gay. One day she suggested we try some anal sex toys and I realized how much I liked anal sex and anal vibrators and butt plugs. I struggled with the “Does that make me gay?” question a lot back then. Now I’ve come to realize it’s not a matter of do I like men or do I like women. It’s a matter of I really like anal sex. Period.

Let’s be honest, most guys are going to give a resounding “Yes!” to that question. Does that mean there is nothing you can do if nature hasn’t blessed you in that department? Not at all. There are gay toys out there that can help you out.

A cock ring is the single easiest gay sex toy you can use to make yourself bigger and harder longer. The flexible ring slips over the head of your penis and gets pushed down to the base of the shaft. The cock ring changes the pressure of blood flow to and from the penis, making you swell quicker and bigger.

The other often overlooked gay sex toy is a penis pump. No, no, no- this is not some scam. Penis pumps are never going to do what a lot of con men try and promise. Using this sex toy won’t permanently make you longer and thinker- but it can give you some pretty impressive temporary results.

You only get one body, there are plenty of things you can do to make it the body you want without surgery. Gay sex toys can help improve your size and how you feel about yourself.

Well Rascal, good to see you on here again! I’m so glad you like the Pjur, it’s one of my favorites, and I’m glad it solved your problem. As a disclaimer though, I have to stress to any others reading this, that while Pjur Back Door Anal Glide is fantastic my own lube of choice is the Boy Butter H2O. I understand some gentlemen prefer a silicone based lube or a water based lubricant, but it’s a good habit to keep a variety of lubes stocked. I would also like to note that Gay Sex toys and lubes have come a long way in the past few years and we’re no longer relegated to making due with traditional women’s lubes, vibes, plugs or beads. A WHOLE new branch of the sex toy industry has emerged to rival the straights! If you’re here you’ve probably checked it out already. If not though, do be sure to check out the Gay/Lesbian section of this site, and just like my new buddy rascal, come on back to the forum if you have any questions or need a recommendation. Hope to chat again soon Rascal!

I am a gay man unapologetically in love with my sexuality. I have ALWAYS loved heading down to my local sex shop to peruse the new leather daddy gear, the expansive selection of anal vibes and the real looking but-never-real-enough porn-star inspired dildos. Well the other day I needed a new lubricant for a partner of mine who was a bit more sensitive to my standard lube than the other boys. Well, I went right down to my local shop after buying groceries to prepare a nice romantic dinner at home. I needed a new lubricant, and I asked my sexy little Dominican friend behind the counter for some suggestions, but he was useless. He kept suggesting Boy Butter, or Astro-glide, but I assured him I had tried them both to no success. That’s when I came home and began searching the web. I landed here on Tabu toys and found the Forum. I posed my question the same way I had at the sex shop on a lark, and before you could say Carson Kresley is overexposed, I already had suggestions from fellow aficionados who had encountered similar problems. My solution ultimately came from my new friend Terynation001, who suggested I try Pjur Back Door anal Glide, to MUCH success. So while I hate to do this to my local shop, I think I may have a found a new home for my sex toy shopping!